Introduction:
My wife Amanda and I have rented rooms in group houses, townhouses
and apartments in Washington, DC for the last 10 years. Some of the recent areas we
were proud to take our parents to, other places we lived in only felt safe during the
day. Some of the apartments had pools on the roof and dog parks, others had
absolutely no storage space and suspect landlords. Such is life in DC – you get
what you pay for, but as we enter the next stage in our lives as newlyweds, we
are fortunate to be leaving the rental game and buying our first house. This
blog post details what went through my mind as we started our journey to find a
house.
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Action on the home front |
Step 1: Deciding What We Could Afford and How We Planned for
the Purchase
My wife and I are blessed in our current jobs. She is a
stellar PR director for a nonprofit that used to work for a lobbying firm and I am three years deep into my career as
a medical equipment sales rep after a number of years working for a consulting
firm.
We dreamed of buying in DC for years, but had only been Zillow “lurkers” up until the time we got married in November 2016. At that point we decided to
start taking steps toward being able to buy. The first thing we did was take
full inventory of our debts and start seriously monitoring our credit scores to
see where we fell on the spectrum. I had a car note, student loan debt, and we
both had some minor credit card debt. I set a goal to pay off all of my car and
student loan debt by April 1, 2017 so we could start looking for a house by
that Fall.
After I paid off my car and student debt by my target date and we both
felt comfortable enough with our strong credit scores, we began seriously looking at the real estate market. I initially started by playing with home mortgage calculators online to see what we could
expect to pay in a monthly mortgage based on home prices.
Knowing what we pay
in rent currently, we set a target price of $525,000 – with a maximum budget
out the door at $600,000. We felt comfortable we could come up with 10% in six
months for our down payment – knowing full well that we would not qualify for any first
time grants due to our combined income. But how far would our budgets go in the
country’s third most expensive housing market? That was the big question.
Step 2: Deciding What to Buy and Where to Buy
It became very clear early on that we had three options, and
only three options for housing in the city: buy a small two bedroom condo in an
area like Navy Yard (our current neighborhood) or Petworth, buy a two bedroom townhouse in an area like Rhode Island Avenue, or buy a three bedroom fixer upper in an area that might be up and coming in
the next 10-15 years. We had a serious conversation to set parameters behind
what we HAD to have with our money.
My only non-negotiable was that the house
had to be able to serve as a safe house for our extended family. My own family
has had their share of ups and downs and I had to keep the biggest promise I
made to my Mom when she passed away – that I would do everything possible to
take care of my Dad. I needed at least enough space that we could have a child
– God willing – and an extra bedroom for emergencies.
My wife had her own set
of goals (thanks HGTV!), and after a brief discussion we knew quickly that we
would need to move outside the city to find a house that met our needs and didn't break the bank. So we narrowed it down
to Reston and Ashburn/Loudoun County to the west, and Woodbridge and Manassas to the south. I
travel HWY 66, I-495 and I-395 enough that I was always going to be partial to
heading to the southern Virginia suburbs (thanks in large part to my company-sponsored EZ Pass).
Amanda took charge
early on sending me listings and I kept up with numerous reports about the Silver Line being built out in Loudoun County. Nothing ever really caught my eye out west for the price point there though.
While on Facebook one day, I saw a Potomac Shores ad and I became incredibly intrigued at the advertised starting prices and the
pictures on their web page. The houses looked like something out of a post card
– somewhere I could see myself raising a family-- and it didn't hurt that it was voted the #1 new community of the year in 2016.
Our first visit to the
community sealed the deal and of course we could easily afford a house starting in the
upper $400’s – right?
Step 3: How to Build a House
As a naïve renter, I had no idea that upper $400’s meant the
shell and that’s about it. Everything my wife (and I to a lesser extent) wanted
came with a price tag.
Want extra carpet padding? Upgraded granite counter tops? A
fireplace? Better elevation? Bigger lot? Cha-ching! Quickly, I realized we
could easily add $75K-$100K to the base price – but then we got incredibly
lucky.
A house (the last one in the Fairways Cove neighborhood) fell back on
the market and we pounced quickly. I got the email blast about the house on a
Thursday and the next day we were there to scope out the lot and have a
discussion with our real estate agent Patty Blackwelder and Ryan Homes. We had another conversation re-visiting our housing budget since there were also some new lots that came up for sale in another area of the community that day that we began considering.
Due to
the urgency of needing to sell the lot, Ryan Homes threw in all sorts of incentives and free
upgrades at us that would slash the build budget by tens of thousands, including a deck, upgraded countertops and appliances, crown molding, a washer and dryer, finished basement and $10K to put towards
closing. The offer was too good to pass up so we jumped and put $5k down less than 24 hours after seeing the original email.
My wife has covered the selection meetings in-depth, but hopefully
this paints some picture of the anxiety that is created when you don’t realize
every selection can come with a cost. But the words to remember here are OPPORTUNITY and RESELL.
What
will happen when we go to sell our house in 5, 10, 15 years in what will then be
a potentially packed residential development? What happens when our home is
competing against similar homes at comparable price points?
You begin to wonder about how construction elements like a finished basement and welled exit that you may or
may not have decided to add will affect the price of your house. This is when it's helpful to have a real estate agent like Patty who can identify unique opportunities like ours that will help you get the most bang for your buck, and who can talk facts
and figures with you to help decide what options will pay off the most in the future should you need to sell.
Real estate is ultimately a gamble on what the future
market holds, which leads me to…
Step 4: Betting the Future
This is the section where I talk about what I don’t know.
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Map of Planned Potomac Shores Amenities |
Even during out first tour of the community we were told that there will be a
VRE station opening in early 2018 (which was originally supposed to be early 2017).
We have been told there will be a commercial development featuring restaurants,
a luxury hotel, shopping – all within walking distance of the Potomac Shores
Club House.
As someone building my house in the neighborhood this all sounds
incredible and I can see the house appreciating with every future announcement.
But in my head, what happens if none of this comes to fruition? What happens if
the proposed townhouses and villas end up not selling which discourages
commercial development?
This seems doubtful given all the buzz and current sales in the community, but you never really know. Ultimately, we decided we are okay with things the way they are now – and that’s why I know this was
the right call.
We are happy with what the house holds for us in the
community’s current state. If the house you are buying or building will be your
primary residence, you really have to be happy with what the current neighborhood offers today, not tomorrow, in order to be comfortable spending your hard earned money. This includes everything from your commute to the schools, area amenities and more.
I'll admit there are a couple of things that I would change if I could. Anytime I start to get sad about a
smaller back yard than we originally anticipated or a price tag that would be considered high anywhere outside of this area though – I remember that our yard is
bigger than anything we could have found in DC and the house is a size that
will allow us and our families to grow into it. This is something that would not have been possible in DC, where we would have been sized
out of a small condo or townhouse within the next 2-3 years.
I can’t wait to see what the finished product
looks like and am looking forward to writing more about this amazing journey. Expect to see more posts from me in the future!
Adam